The festive season is about celebrating kindness and generosity — and at WildHeart, we encourage our tamariki to embrace the true spirit of Christmas by engaging in activities that help them connect with the joy of giving.
While toddlers and pre-schoolers might not yet grasp the concept of charity, they can certainly begin to understand the importance of sharing, caring for others, and expressing love through simple acts of kindness. Christmas provides a unique opportunity to introduce young children to these concepts, so we’ve suggested three simple, creative and meaningful ways families can teach children about the spirit of Christmas at home.
- Make Handcrafted Cards for Family and Friends
One of the simplest, yet most meaningful, ways children can give is by making personalised Christmas cards for their loved ones. This activity not only encourages creativity but also teaches the value of thoughtfulness and personal connection, and encourages gratitude for the love and support they receive from others.
Provide tamariki with coloured paper, markers, stickers, and stamps. Encourage them to decorate the cards with drawings, messages, or even a handprint to make them personal.
Talk to your child about how special it feels when someone gives them a card, and ask them to think about how they can make others feel happy with their cards.
Children can gift these cards to their family members, friends at WildHeart, or even to local community members such as neighbours. This can be a great way for them to practice sharing and spreading joy.
- Donate Toys to Those in Need
The holiday season is an excellent time to teach children about empathy and how their actions can help others. Donating gently used toys to children who may not have the same privileges is a wonderful way to foster a sense of generosity. This encourages empathy and compassion, and teaches children that giving is about sharing resources to make others happy.
Have a conversation with your tamariki about how some children might not have as many toys or resources, and explain how donating toys can make a big difference in someone’s life. Help your child select toys at home that they have outgrown or no longer use, which are still in good condition. Take them along to donate those toys to a local charity, and take the opportunity to talk with them about what it means to give, and why it’s important to share with others who may be less fortunate.
- Simple Acts of Kindness
Sometimes the smallest acts of kindness can make the biggest impact. Teaching children the value of being kind to others, especially during the busy holiday season, can create a ripple effect of goodwill in the community. Not only does this teach kindness, respect, and consideration for others, it also helps children understand that giving doesn’t always have to involve physical gifts.
Set up a “Kindness Tree” at home, where your child/ren can write or draw simple acts of kindness they’ve done each day. For example: “I helped my friend tie their shoes,” or “I shared my snack with someone.” This reinforces that giving doesn’t always have to involve material things — it can be as simple as offering help or kindness to those around us.
Encourage children to practice kindness through verbal appreciation, such as telling someone “thank you” or complimenting their friends. You can also make a “Kindness Challenge” – where the siblings work together to complete small, thoughtful acts, like giving a compliment, helping clean up, or simply listening when someone needs to talk – a family tradition each year in the lead-up to Christmas.
- Give Back to the Environment
The spirit of giving isn’t just about giving to people; it’s also about showing kindness to our planet. In the lead-up to Christmas, you can introduce or reinforce eco-friendly habits at home as a way of “giving” back to the Earth. This teaches tamariki about sustainability and the importance of environmental responsibility, and encourages children to think about how their actions impact the world around them.
Go on a nature clean-up expedition at a local park. Provide your child with gloves and bags to collect litter, and explain the importance of taking care of the environment. You might also make eco-friendly Christmas crafts together using recycled materials, like paper chains or upcycled decorations for the tree.
- Role-Playing Giving Through Play
Young children learn a lot through play, and role-playing is one of the most powerful ways to teach abstract concepts like giving. Through imaginative play, children can act out giving and receiving, helping them internalise the values of generosity and kindness. This encourages social and emotional development, and helps children understand the joy of giving and the importance of generosity in relationships.
Set up a Christmas-themed pretend play area at home where children can “shop” for gifts to give to their friends or “wrap” presents for family members. Provide a selection of toys, play food, and costumes for children to use in their role-playing, and encourage them to think about how their character might give to others. For example, “What gift would you give to your friend?” or “How can we share this toy so everyone gets a turn?”
Embrace the Spirit of Giving Every Day
At WildHeart Early Learning Centre, we understand that teaching children about the joy of giving is a year-round journey. By creating an environment where kindness and generosity are part of everyday life, we help our tamariki develop a deep sense of empathy and compassion. This holiday season, let’s celebrate not just receiving, but the wonderful gift of giving.
Through small acts of kindness, children can begin to understand that the true magic of Christmas lies in the joy of giving to others – and this is a lesson that lasts far beyond the holiday season.
Happy Holidays from the team at WildHeart Early Learning Centre!


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